It wasn't only about you though! If it was just you I could write it off as an exception but I just learned more hot juicy details about someone else too!! I don't get it at all!
I guess for me... If I think about me and Hikaru, thinking about him looking at anyone else just makes me want to cry, even if I know that there are a thousand better options for him than someone like me. If I ever thought he wanted to be with someone else... I think part of me would definitely break, since it would mean I'm not enough for him. And I don't mean like just looking- I can appreciate people physically still, don't get me wrong. Cute girls are still so cute my brain goes to mush and I get really excited by awesome muscles, and I definitely want to be popular enough that all those kinds of people are into me, but I don't want to be with any of them. The same goes for him, like he looks at people all day because he's into fashion and I know he's gonna see lots of naked people because of it eventually and that's fine! But... I think if either of us wanted to be with someone else, neither of us would be able to handle it without hurting, and I don't want to hurt Hikaru. So I guess I don't understand how anyone could truly love someone and still want to be with someone else, still know that the person they love is never truly going to choose them. Not really.
I don’t think you or him are the type to get someone else involved in your relationship.
And that’s alright.
If you two are happy together, then that doesn’t have to change.
This three-way relationship is still new to me. I guess it’s easy because I feel glad seeing Zuko and Aurora together. They’re both so different. If I want to focus on one person more than the other, that doesn’t mean I love either of them any less.
Also, we decided on this together.
I can only speak for myself. I’ve been in many relationships, and ultimately, it depends on what you, and your partner(s) is comfortable with. If one of them wants my attention, I provide it. If the other doesn’t but is upset about it, then that is on them for not talking to me. If they both wanted my attention at the same time, I’d tell them. Really, communication is key. As for how I feel… Maybe I’m still in the honeymoon phase, but I just want them both to be happy.
I don’t want to hurt either of them.
Does that help at all?
There’s nothing wrong with loving one person, several, or just yourself.
[ His head hurts a little, but unfortunately for everyone involved in this conversation, his head hurts sometimes when he sees overly complicated logos and confuses them for math formulas and sometimes believes that people can understand Japanese if he writes in romaji. Fully understanding isn't really going to happen, but he's trying, and that's important. ]
I don't know that I'm ever gonna fully get it, but as long as you're all happy I'm happy for you.
The sweets part is definitely not the point of that! Okay, another example... you're doing the Lady and the Hobo spaghetti scene. How do you do it with three people?
Well then if you’re saying she shouldn’t cook, because she’s royalty, then I should be the one to cook, and there will be no spaghetti to speak of! We’d all just eat ash for dinner.
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It wasn't only about you though! If it was just you I could write it off as an exception but I just learned more hot juicy details about someone else too!! I don't get it at all!
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What don’t you get?
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If I think about me and Hikaru, thinking about him looking at anyone else just makes me want to cry, even if I know that there are a thousand better options for him than someone like me. If I ever thought he wanted to be with someone else... I think part of me would definitely break, since it would mean I'm not enough for him. And I don't mean like just looking- I can appreciate people physically still, don't get me wrong. Cute girls are still so cute my brain goes to mush and I get really excited by awesome muscles, and I definitely want to be popular enough that all those kinds of people are into me, but I don't want to be with any of them. The same goes for him, like he looks at people all day because he's into fashion and I know he's gonna see lots of naked people because of it eventually and that's fine! But... I think if either of us wanted to be with someone else, neither of us would be able to handle it without hurting, and I don't want to hurt Hikaru.
So I guess I don't understand how anyone could truly love someone and still want to be with someone else, still know that the person they love is never truly going to choose them. Not really.
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And that’s alright.
If you two are happy together, then that doesn’t have to change.
This three-way relationship is still new to me. I guess it’s easy because I feel glad seeing Zuko and Aurora together. They’re both so different. If I want to focus on one person more than the other, that doesn’t mean I love either of them any less.
Also, we decided on this together.
I can only speak for myself. I’ve been in many relationships, and ultimately, it depends on what you, and your partner(s) is comfortable with. If one of them wants my attention, I provide it. If the other doesn’t but is upset about it, then that is on them for not talking to me. If they both wanted my attention at the same time, I’d tell them. Really, communication is key. As for how I feel… Maybe I’m still in the honeymoon phase, but I just want them both to be happy.
I don’t want to hurt either of them.
Does that help at all?
There’s nothing wrong with loving one person, several, or just yourself.
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[ His head hurts a little, but unfortunately for everyone involved in this conversation, his head hurts sometimes when he sees overly complicated logos and confuses them for math formulas and sometimes believes that people can understand Japanese if he writes in romaji. Fully understanding isn't really going to happen, but he's trying, and that's important. ]
I don't know that I'm ever gonna fully get it, but as long as you're all happy I'm happy for you.
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[If Taichi is bold enough, Gokudera will answer him without hesitation.]
Thanks
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[ This is important ]
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Okay, another example... you're doing the Lady and the Hobo spaghetti scene. How do you do it with three people?
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[Sigh~! He’s got it bad.]
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I can wait my turn, you know? I don’t try and push my face in while they kiss. I could try, though…
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Well then if you’re saying she shouldn’t cook, because she’s royalty, then I should be the one to cook, and there will be no spaghetti to speak of! We’d all just eat ash for dinner.
What is a romance mark and what is a meet-cute?